Understanding Violent Behavior

This blog uses the terms “violence” and “coercion” to describe behavior that is non-nurturing or doesn’t maintain the dignity and safety of those involved. This is in contrast to behavior (especially communication) that is non-violent or therapeutic.

People behave in ways that get what they want or need, or to get away from something, someone or some place they do not want.  People do not engage in problem behaviors because they have mental illness, conduct disorders, developmental disabilities or other cognitive disabilities.  They engage in behaviors that have worked for them. 

People do not "have" behaviors; rather, they use behavior for specific reasons.  

One goal of the professional is to create environments and relationships that support therapeutic alternatives to problem behaviors.

A professional will conduct a range of assessments to determine the message of a person’s behavior.  The professional then will support the person to find new ways to achieve his/her goals in ways that are more appropriate, or that in the least do not cause harm or injury to themselves and/or others.